« Cuts and bruises caused by a whip or a flogger will heal in a few days, but the real emotional hurt that a dominant can inflict on a trusted submissive by poorly chosen words or actions can take weeks or months to heal, if ever.
The skills required by this type of dominant include perceptiveness, compassion, wisdom, sensibility, understanding, empathy, patience, openness, honesty, the ability to communicate, the ability to explore trust and the ability to explore intimacy, both his submissive’s and his own, without fear or deception.
Some dominants have these skills. Some must learn them. Some will never have them.”
Peter Masters “understanding submission”
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